I've been married a large part of my life; not to one person, mind you, but still married. At this point in life, I'm taking some "me" time.I like my cooking, the dogs can get on the furniture, and I'm building a new house without having to put in anything I don't want. (One of my ex's is even offering a hand.
) I fully admit to not having a relationship simply because I don't want one bad enough to put myself back in the game.
Tom
"Everything is something."
'88 K75C, '03 K12RS, '93 R100GSPD '02 F650GS (all gone, but not forgotten)
'93 R100R
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I'm with ya, Tom. I've been married twice, and have been on my own now for just over six years. I tried the eHarmony and Match.com thing for a while, met some really nice people and had a few good dates, but after a while it just got to be too much work. I have since learned to relish the "me" time, and relax. If there is a relationship in my future, fine, but at nearly 50, I'm not actively seeking one at this point.
Kevin W.
'76 R90/6 (wei?ƒe kuh)
'11 G650GS (Bill the Cat)
Der Weg ist das Ziel!
Like I said," at this stage." Both genders should enjoy that "me" time. Me, 31 yrs married, then a nine yr relationship. After 3 yrs, I'm with you guys. Enjoy life and recognize how fortunate we are. What happens, happens.
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Susan
'03 F650CS "tink" (sold)
ÔÇ£City girl who adapts well for short periods of time." J. Bainbridge (Idaho boy)
"The highways of life are full of flat squirrels who couldn't make up their minds.." Unknown
Motorcycling is something we do alone together.
I think there is a relationship counter part to that but I have yet to find it.
Pass the mustard and UP THE REVOLUTION!
Don't really know why I'm part of this thread.. married since 1987!
Not always CAKE, but I'll take the bad with the good.... and... I love her.
Phil W2GE
2010 R1200RT 1998 KLX300R
New Sweden BMW Riders
iPhone5-> Zumo 660->SENA SMH10, Nuvi 500,
"Everything is something."
'88 K75C, '03 K12RS, '93 R100GSPD '02 F650GS (all gone, but not forgotten)
'93 R100R
http://frommars.smugmug.com/
Susan
'03 F650CS "tink" (sold)
ÔÇ£City girl who adapts well for short periods of time." J. Bainbridge (Idaho boy)
"The highways of life are full of flat squirrels who couldn't make up their minds.." Unknown
The trick is to fine when the "me" time is "we" time!
Voni
sMiling
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Live fully. Laugh deeply. Love widely.
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Back to finding a we instead of just a me. Why not have a "singles forum frenzy" at the National? I know what started the relationship with my wife was the fact that I rode.
Converted a Harley Babe to a BMW Bride and we shared many smiles before cancer ended that ride.
It will be a while yet before ...
Why not have a place to find a riding partner?